.flutter.

moving

vickidc — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 00:45:50 +0000

i’m moving… again!

.mad overdue.

vickidc — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 08:12:41 +0000

this is like the first post of 2010… am i lazy or what??? hah! but oh well that’s just me… and while typing this i realise that i still have photos to upload from last year… jeez… what am i waiting for?

.christmas.

vickidc — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 09:26:30 +0000

it’s seems like i didn’t have as much christmas cheer this year… hopefully the parties that are planned for the next few days are going to help me with that feel…

Merry Christmas to one and all!!!

.holiday.

vickidc — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 07:39:02 +0000

i’m always grumbling about not being to go for a holiday or that I don’t get to go overseas to all the wonderful countries that I wanna go to. but seriously there are so many people out there who like me are not going for holiday also so I shouldn’t be complaining right?

on the other hand, i’ll be going to batam on the 13th of december for charity. to the orphanage to bring Christmas cheer to the kids there. he’ll be going too. : ) can’t wait. hopefully i can wake up in the morning though cause will be celebrating daddy’s birthday the night before. heehee.

anyway i shall regard the 13th as my holiday! : ) at least it will be for a good cause…

.itstime.

vickidc — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 08:22:04 +0000

this is my first blog via my iPhone. I know I got an iPhone again. Aren’t I so lame? Don’t get me wrong not that because the iPhone is uncool or anything, it’s absolutely the coolest phone ever to be created with all these amazing apps to d/l and most of them are free…

See the thing is I had an iPhone then I didn’t and now I do again… And I realize that I so can’t live without my iPhone… The lameness is that I actually gave it up in the first place…

Well to anyone who is thinking of changing to any other phone I totally object that idea… The iPhone is the best tool anyone could ever have… : )

.happythoughts.

vickidc — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:49:54 +0000

don’t you ever wonder why some people are just so happy about everything??? i think i found the secret… it’s happy thoughts!!! yes, you heard/read me right! do you remember when you wake up in the morning and go, “oh crap, i have to wake up so early again… *insert grumble insert grumble*” and for that whole day things just doesn’t seem to go so well… i have to admit i have those days too. A LOT!

next time, try this when you wake up in the morning, “good morning world. what a wonderful sunny/rainy morning!” and try to think happy thoughts for the rest of the day and your day would seem to be so much better. i’m not guaranteeing it but i’m just saying give it a shot. no love loss right?

it will be hard. i know. you may not succeed everyday or it might not work everytime. but at least your head will be filled with happy thoughts right? it could be a psychological thing. then again, a lot of other stuff are.

so try it and let me know how it goes k? *wink*

.updates.

vickidc — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 02:03:52 +0000

ok i know i havent been doing much of this lately. as in blog about my life currently. ive been blogging about specific topics and stuff. while it just happens to come up thats why. ok so for this entry i’ll provide some updates. not like anyone really cares or reads it. hah! maybe just for my own benefit so that i can look back on it and go like “oohhh…. ya that did happen”….

well so far work has been great. have been given a lot of new stuff to learn and do. which is great for me cause if not i’ll be bored too fast. have been tasked with a lot of stuff, “with great power comes great responsibility” spidey taught me that… lol. have been travelling a little bit for work as well, which i have always thought is so cool. i dont know why i think is cool. dont ask me…

with the boy, things are good. just that i havent seen him for days and i miss him… i guess he misses me too… well he better… lol. we might go for a short trip or maybe not. cause our schedules are always so unpredictable. but whatever time that we have to spend together is precious. and is well spent.

i guess i kinda grew up a little more over this period of time. my priorities have changed. not gonna elaborate on that but ya.

miss the girlies that i use to hang out with. sorry for always being so busy babes… still here though with muchlove!

anyway, this is short but at least its a little update about whats going on right now.

.gratitude.

vickidc — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 08:05:43 +0000

we are all human and it is only natural that we like people to show their gratitude for the things that we have done for them. some of us don’t ask for it because as they say don’t do something expecting something in return, do it with your heart. whilst others expect gratitude to be given to them when they do something.

like they say, when we do something for someone, the best is not to expect anything in return and if we do receive something in return then isn’t great! there will not be any disappointment if there is no expectation.

it is not right to expect people to show us gratitude when we ourselves offer to do things for them. and even if they asked us to do it, we can say no. but if we chose to say yes then do it willingly.

this is something that i’ve been trying to tell myself daily. do things willingly and don’t expect any gratitude. when gratitude is shown then accept it gracefully. but don’t gloat about it.

**Disclaimer: this has nothing to do with any real events that had happened or might have been similar. and don’t worry nothing happened to me as well, it is just something that i was thinking about.

.letting go.

vickidc — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 08:17:44 +0000

sometimes u have to let go. and when u do, u’ll realise that it’s better that way. it’s like walking a dog. u gotta let the dog have some sort of length of the leash for it to roam. if u keep pulling on too tight, one day when u let go of the leash the dog will run and never come back. true if u train the dog it will come back but u can’t train humans…

guys like girls who are intriging. and vice versa. it’s the playing hard to get thing. the more something is unattainable the more u would want it.

so bottomline is, let go of the person that u love so much. i know it’s hard, i had trouble with it. but i have to. we all have to. trust me, they’ll want u more when it seems like u don’t want them…

.mistake vs habit.

vickidc — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 13:09:12 +0000

was talking to a business associate (b.a.) over lunch one day and the subject of infidelity came up. the question of how many times should a woman/man forgive her/his man/woman if he/she cheats on her/him also came up. my b.a. said that once is fine, twice is stupidity. she said that “if a man/woman cheats, once is a mistake, twice (& onwards) is a habit”. i guess she’s kinda right. can’t really say how many times you should forgive him/her cause if you still love the person, you’ll naturally want to forgive him/her right? but if you do forgive him/her, you must also try to forget that it had happen. because if you don’t, everytime that he/she’s caught in traffic on the way home or finishes a meeting too late you’ll automatically think that he/she’s out cheating on you. it’s gonna be hard to trust him/her again, yes. but you’ll have to. because you chose to forgive him/her in the first place. all that suspicion will lead to arguements and in time, the relationship will not last even if you had choose to forgive him/her in the first place.

so therefore, the bottomline is, are you ready to forgive and forget? you can forgive but can you really forget?